You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
SHELEANA AIYANASometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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