Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
SHELEANA AIYANASometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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