You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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Rejection is redirection.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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