Be the kind of person you want to date.
SHELEANA AIYANABe the kind of person you want to date.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
SHELEANA AIYANAPeople who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
SHELEANA AIYANANo more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
SHELEANA AIYANADo not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
SHELEANA AIYANAAnger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
SHELEANA AIYANAFeelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
SHELEANA AIYANAHeartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
SHELEANA AIYANAEndings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
SHELEANA AIYANASometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
SHELEANA AIYANAIf they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
SHELEANA AIYANAYour partner is your spiritual teacher.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
SHELEANA AIYANA