If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
SHELEANA AIYANAMaturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
More Sheleana Aiyana Quotes
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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