Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
SHELEANA AIYANAFeelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANAIf you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s not your job to awaken your family.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
SHELEANA AIYANAHeartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANAWe cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
SHELEANA AIYANAIf they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
SHELEANA AIYANAChoose the path that feels lighter.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
SHELEANA AIYANAYour body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
SHELEANA AIYANAWhen we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
SHELEANA AIYANAThe hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
SHELEANA AIYANALiving in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
SHELEANA AIYANADo not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
SHELEANA AIYANA