As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
IRVIN D. YALOMHidden in disguise, leaking out in a variety of symptoms. It is the wellspring of many of our worries, stresses, and conflicts.
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You will search the world over and not find a nonsuperstitious community. As long as there is ignorance, there will be adherence to superstition. Dispelling ignorance is the only solution. That is why I teach.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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One reason patients are reluctant to work in a therapy group is they fear that things will go too far, that the powerful therapist or the collective group might coerce them to lose control–to say or think or feel things that will be catastrophic.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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