None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
IRVIN D. YALOMAs we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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