The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
IRVIN D. YALOMDeath cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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Living safely is dangerous.
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Religion has everything on its side: revelation, prophecies, government protection, the highest dignity and eminence. . . and more than this, the invaluable prerogative of being allowed to imprint its doctrines on the mind at a tender age of childhood, whereby they become almost innate ideas.
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Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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Hidden in disguise, leaking out in a variety of symptoms. It is the wellspring of many of our worries, stresses, and conflicts.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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