Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
IRVIN D. YALOMYou know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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Only the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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Since then mountains and torrential rivers and whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we wanted to get together, we couldn’t. But when you now think of that little footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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A sense of life meaning ensues but cannot be deliberately pursued: life meaning is always a derivative phenomenon that materializes when we have transcended ourselves.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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