The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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