The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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