Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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