Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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