Be the kind of person you want to date.
SHELEANA AIYANADo not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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Rejection is redirection.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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