Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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