It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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