When we put down ideas of what life should be like, we are free to wholeheartedly say yes to our life as it is.
TARA BRACHSelf-judgment continues to arise – it’s a strong habit – but the fact that I made a conscious commitment to recognize it has helped me stop feeding the story of being unworthy.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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There is something wonderfully bold and liberating about saying yes to our entire imperfect and messy life.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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As we free ourselves from the suffering of ‘something is wrong with me, ‘we trust and express the fullness of who we are.’
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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Longing, felt fully, carries us to belonging.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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Become a witness to your thoughts.
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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
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We can find true refuge within our own hearts and minds-right here, right now, in the midst of our moment-to-moment lives.
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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