If our hearts are ready for anything, we are touched by the beauty and poetry and mystery that fill our world.
TARA BRACHRadical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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Paying attention is the most basic and profound expression of love.
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Self-judgment continues to arise – it’s a strong habit – but the fact that I made a conscious commitment to recognize it has helped me stop feeding the story of being unworthy.
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When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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Longing, felt fully, carries us to belonging.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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The boundary to what we can accept is the boundary to our freedom.
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Observing desire without acting on it enlarges our freedom to choose how we live.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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The spiritual path is not a solo endeavor. In fact, the very notion of a self who is trying to free her/ himself is a delusion. We are in it together and the company of spiritual friends helps us realize our interconnectedness.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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Through the sacred art of pausing, we develop the capacity to stop hiding, to stop running away from our experience. We begin to trust in our natural intelligence, in our naturally wise heart, in our capacity to open to whatever arises.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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In a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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Stopping the endless pursuit of getting somewhere else is the perhaps most beautiful offering we can make to our spirit.
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As we free ourselves from the suffering of ‘something is wrong with me, ‘we trust and express the fullness of who we are.’
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When we open to love, we become love.
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