Tara Brach on acceptance
Tara Brach51 quotes“The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.”
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Tara BrachTara Brach The most powerful healing arises from the simple intention to love the life within you, unconditionally, with as much tenderness and presence as possible.
Tara BrachTara Brach Observing desire without acting on it enlarges our freedom to choose how we live.
Tara BrachTara Brach If our hearts are ready for anything, we are touched by the beauty and poetry and mystery that fill our world.
Tara BrachTara Brach There is something wonderfully bold and liberating about saying yes to our entire imperfect and messy life.
Tara BrachTara Brach Self-judgment continues to arise – it’s a strong habit – but the fact that I made a conscious commitment to recognize it has helped me stop feeding the story of being unworthy.
Tara BrachTara Brach But this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
Tara BrachTara Brach With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
Tara BrachTara Brach Extend an act of kindness each day. No one has to know. It can be a smile, reassuring words, a small favor – without expecting something in return.
Tara BrachTara Brach On this sacred path of Radical Acceptance, rather than striving for perfection, we discover how to love ourselves into wholeness.
Tara BrachTara Brach When we open to love, we become love.
Tara BrachTara Brach Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
Tara BrachTara Brach Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
Tara BrachTara Brach In a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
Tara BrachTara Brach Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
Tara BrachTara Brach Become a witness to your thoughts.
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