By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
TARA BRACH
TARA BRACH
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Tara Brach51 quotes“By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.”
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When we open to love, we become love.
Tara BrachTara Brach Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
Tara BrachTara Brach Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
Tara BrachTara Brach In a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
Tara BrachTara Brach Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
Tara BrachTara Brach Become a witness to your thoughts.
Tara BrachTara Brach Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
Tara BrachTara Brach Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
Tara BrachTara Brach Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
Tara BrachTara Brach Emotions are the interaction of thoughts and of sensations in the body.
Tara BrachTara Brach When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
Tara BrachTara Brach The boundary to what we can accept is the boundary to our freedom.
Tara BrachTara Brach We can find true refuge within our own hearts and minds-right here, right now, in the midst of our moment-to-moment lives.
Tara BrachTara Brach The spiritual path is not a solo endeavor. In fact, the very notion of a self who is trying to free her/ himself is a delusion. We are in it together and the company of spiritual friends helps us realize our interconnectedness.
Tara BrachTara Brach We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
Tara BrachTara Brach Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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