Feeling compassion for ourselves in no way releases us from responsibility for our actions. Rather, it releases us from the self-hatred that prevents us from responding to our life with clarity and balance.
TARA BRACHTelling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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The two wings of mindfulness and kindness will begin to open the heart to more connection with our world.
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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When we’re awake in our bodies and sense, the world comes alive. Wisdom, creativity, and love are discovered as we relax and awaken through our bodies.
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Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
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As we free ourselves from the suffering of ‘something is wrong with me, ‘we trust and express the fullness of who we are.’
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
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Become a witness to your thoughts.
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If our hearts are ready for anything, we are touched by the beauty and poetry and mystery that fill our world.
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
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We can find true refuge within our own hearts and minds-right here, right now, in the midst of our moment-to-moment lives.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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Whatever you encounter, may that be part of the path.
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Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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The most powerful healing arises from the simple intention to love the life within you, unconditionally, with as much tenderness and presence as possible.
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Extend an act of kindness each day. No one has to know. It can be a smile, reassuring words, a small favor – without expecting something in return.
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The boundary to what we can accept is the boundary to our freedom.
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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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