Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
TARA BRACHObserving desire without acting on it enlarges our freedom to choose how we live.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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The boundary to what we can accept is the boundary to our freedom.
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Become a witness to your thoughts.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.
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Feeling compassion for ourselves in no way releases us from responsibility for our actions. Rather, it releases us from the self-hatred that prevents us from responding to our life with clarity and balance.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Observing desire without acting on it enlarges our freedom to choose how we live.
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Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
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Even a few moments of offering loving kindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.
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Through the sacred art of pausing, we develop the capacity to stop hiding, to stop running away from our experience. We begin to trust in our natural intelligence, in our naturally wise heart, in our capacity to open to whatever arises.
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We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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The two wings of mindfulness and kindness will begin to open the heart to more connection with our world.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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In a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
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Emotions are the interaction of thoughts and of sensations in the body.
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The most powerful healing arises from the simple intention to love the life within you, unconditionally, with as much tenderness and presence as possible.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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As we free ourselves from the suffering of ‘something is wrong with me, ‘we trust and express the fullness of who we are.’
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Paying attention is the most basic and profound expression of love.
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