The boundary to what we can accept is the boundary to our freedom.
TARA BRACHMindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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The two wings of mindfulness and kindness will begin to open the heart to more connection with our world.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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Whatever you encounter, may that be part of the path.
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Self-judgment continues to arise – it’s a strong habit – but the fact that I made a conscious commitment to recognize it has helped me stop feeding the story of being unworthy.
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In a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
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On this sacred path of Radical Acceptance, rather than striving for perfection, we discover how to love ourselves into wholeness.
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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Feeling compassion for ourselves in no way releases us from responsibility for our actions. Rather, it releases us from the self-hatred that prevents us from responding to our life with clarity and balance.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
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There is something wonderfully bold and liberating about saying yes to our entire imperfect and messy life.
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Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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We can find true refuge within our own hearts and minds-right here, right now, in the midst of our moment-to-moment lives.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.
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We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
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We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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When we open to love, we become love.
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