Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
TARA BRACHEven a few moments of offering loving kindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Through the sacred art of pausing, we develop the capacity to stop hiding, to stop running away from our experience. We begin to trust in our natural intelligence, in our naturally wise heart, in our capacity to open to whatever arises.
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When we’re awake in our bodies and sense, the world comes alive. Wisdom, creativity, and love are discovered as we relax and awaken through our bodies.
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But this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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The most powerful healing arises from the simple intention to love the life within you, unconditionally, with as much tenderness and presence as possible.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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The boundary to what we can accept is the boundary to our freedom.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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Emotions are the interaction of thoughts and of sensations in the body.
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We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
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Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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Whatever you encounter, may that be part of the path.
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Become a witness to your thoughts.
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Even a few moments of offering loving kindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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On this sacred path of Radical Acceptance, rather than striving for perfection, we discover how to love ourselves into wholeness.
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We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
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When we put down ideas of what life should be like, we are free to wholeheartedly say yes to our life as it is.
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If our hearts are ready for anything, we are touched by the beauty and poetry and mystery that fill our world.
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Observing desire without acting on it enlarges our freedom to choose how we live.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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