We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
SHELEANA AIYANALife isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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