Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANAImagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Rejection is redirection.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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