If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
SHELEANA AIYANAThe only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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