It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
SHELEANA AIYANAWe are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Rejection is redirection.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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