You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
SHELEANA AIYANAWe are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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