Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
TARA BRACHSelf-judgment continues to arise – it’s a strong habit – but the fact that I made a conscious commitment to recognize it has helped me stop feeding the story of being unworthy.
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Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
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Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
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We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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Even a few moments of offering loving kindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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Paying attention is the most basic and profound expression of love.
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If our hearts are ready for anything, we are touched by the beauty and poetry and mystery that fill our world.
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Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.
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