The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
TARA BRACHRadical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
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When we put down ideas of what life should be like, we are free to wholeheartedly say yes to our life as it is.
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As we free ourselves from the suffering of ‘something is wrong with me, ‘we trust and express the fullness of who we are.’
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Emotions are the interaction of thoughts and of sensations in the body.
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When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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The two wings of mindfulness and kindness will begin to open the heart to more connection with our world.
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But this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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On this sacred path of Radical Acceptance, rather than striving for perfection, we discover how to love ourselves into wholeness.
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