If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
SHELEANA AIYANALife isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
More Sheleana Aiyana Quotes
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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