Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
SHELEANA AIYANAIf they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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