Death loses its terror if one dies when one has consummated one’s life!
IRVIN D. YALOMA focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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All these things I’ve written so much about. That’s why I’ve made such a practice really, over and over to hammer home the point of self-revelation and being more of yourself and showing yourself. Every book I write I want to get that in there.
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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