It is true that you get what you tolerate.
HENRY CLOUDValues are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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The physicality of a real relationship – one that encompasses mind, body and soul – ultimately makes it more fulfilling and powerful than any virtual relationship ever could be.
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We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
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I’m not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.
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If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
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To rescue people from the natural consequences of their behavior is to render them powerless.
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Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.
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The business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
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We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
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To grow, we need things that we do not have and cannot provide, and we need to have a source of those things who looks favorably upon us and who does things for us for our own good.
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Couples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship.
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Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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The amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that’s present.
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Diligence is not easy, but we can’t reach our goals without it.
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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A leader’s responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.
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Dating should be a part of your life, not your life a part of dating. There is more to life than finding a date.
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Dating is primarily a numbers game. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.
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You will not grow without attempting to do things you are unable to do.
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Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.
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Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.
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You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.
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Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
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Independence is not an option for us. Remember, God existed without us.
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