“You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.”

You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.

People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.

Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.

When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.

It’s not your job to awaken your family.

If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.

You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.

Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.

Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.

Be the kind of person you want to date.

Ultra-independence is a trauma response.

Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.

Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.

Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.

You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.

You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.