It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
PEMA CHODRONFeel the feelings and drop the story.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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