Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
PEMA CHODRONThe second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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Being satisfied with what we already have is a magical golden key to being alive in a full, unrestricted, and inspired way.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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