The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
PEMA CHODRONAll the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Let your curiosity be greater than your fear.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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