As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
PEMA CHODRON
PEMA CHODRON
Pema Chodron on growth
Pema Chodron64 quotes“As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.”
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Pema ChodronPema Chodron Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
Pema ChodronPema Chodron Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
Pema ChodronPema Chodron Every moment is unique, unknown, completely fresh.
Pema ChodronPema Chodron Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
Pema ChodronPema Chodron All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
Pema ChodronPema Chodron We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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