Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
PEMA CHODRONThe truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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Let your curiosity be greater than your fear.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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