We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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