Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
SHELEANA AIYANAOur ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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