You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
SHELEANA AIYANAAuthentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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Rejection is redirection.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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