With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
TARA BRACHObserving desire without acting on it enlarges our freedom to choose how we live.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
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Longing, felt fully, carries us to belonging.
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The spiritual path is not a solo endeavor. In fact, the very notion of a self who is trying to free her/ himself is a delusion. We are in it together and the company of spiritual friends helps us realize our interconnectedness.
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But this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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We can find true refuge within our own hearts and minds-right here, right now, in the midst of our moment-to-moment lives.
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In a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
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Become a witness to your thoughts.
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Even a few moments of offering loving kindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.
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