Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
TARA BRACHFear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
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When we put down ideas of what life should be like, we are free to wholeheartedly say yes to our life as it is.
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Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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Observing desire without acting on it enlarges our freedom to choose how we live.
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There is something wonderfully bold and liberating about saying yes to our entire imperfect and messy life.
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Stopping the endless pursuit of getting somewhere else is the perhaps most beautiful offering we can make to our spirit.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
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The spiritual path is not a solo endeavor. In fact, the very notion of a self who is trying to free her/ himself is a delusion. We are in it together and the company of spiritual friends helps us realize our interconnectedness.
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