Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
TARA BRACHFear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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The boundary to what we can accept is the boundary to our freedom.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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Stopping the endless pursuit of getting somewhere else is the perhaps most beautiful offering we can make to our spirit.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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Become a witness to your thoughts.
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When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
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When we put down ideas of what life should be like, we are free to wholeheartedly say yes to our life as it is.
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Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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If our hearts are ready for anything, we are touched by the beauty and poetry and mystery that fill our world.
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Whatever you encounter, may that be part of the path.
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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