The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
TARA BRACHOur attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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As we free ourselves from the suffering of ‘something is wrong with me, ‘we trust and express the fullness of who we are.’
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But this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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Extend an act of kindness each day. No one has to know. It can be a smile, reassuring words, a small favor – without expecting something in return.
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Become a witness to your thoughts.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Even a few moments of offering loving kindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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When we put down ideas of what life should be like, we are free to wholeheartedly say yes to our life as it is.
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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