Self-judgment continues to arise – it’s a strong habit – but the fact that I made a conscious commitment to recognize it has helped me stop feeding the story of being unworthy.
TARA BRACHOur attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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In a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
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Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.
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Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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Longing, felt fully, carries us to belonging.
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Feeling compassion for ourselves in no way releases us from responsibility for our actions. Rather, it releases us from the self-hatred that prevents us from responding to our life with clarity and balance.
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Paying attention is the most basic and profound expression of love.
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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
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