You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s not your job to awaken your family.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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