We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
SHELEANA AIYANAUltra-independence is a trauma response.
More Sheleana Aiyana Quotes
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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Rejection is redirection.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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