Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
SHELEANA AIYANAUltra-independence is a trauma response.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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