Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
SHELEANA AIYANAUltra-independence is a trauma response.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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