It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
SHELEANA AIYANAMaturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
SHELEANA AIYANAThe only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
SHELEANA AIYANAFeelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
SHELEANA AIYANASome of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
SHELEANA AIYANATake the time to learn your partner’s heart.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
SHELEANA AIYANABe the kind of person you want to date.
SHELEANA AIYANAWe are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
SHELEANA AIYANAWhen we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
SHELEANA AIYANAIf you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
SHELEANA AIYANAChoose the path that feels lighter.
SHELEANA AIYANADon’t believe everything your mind tells you.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANARejection is redirection.
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