If we turn away from our own pain, we may find ourselves projecting this aversion onto others, seeing them as somehow inadequate for being in a troubled situation.
SHARON SALZBERGBy engaging in a delusive quest for happiness, we bring only suffering upon ourselves. In our frantic search for something to quench our thirst, we overlook the water all around us and drive ourselves into exile from our own lives.
More Sharon Salzberg Quotes
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We cannot simply forgive and forget, nor should we.
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We have the power to improve our work lives immeasurably through awareness, compassion, patience & ingenuity.
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Even as we recognize our resentment, bitterness, or jealousy, we can also honor our own wish to be happy, to feel free.
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When you flip the switch in that attic, it doesn’t matter whether its been dark for ten minutes, ten years or ten decades.
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With attachment all that seems to exist is just me & that object I desire.
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Meditation is a microcosm, a model, a mirror. The skills we practice when we sit are transferable to the rest of our lives.
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Fearful of wasting a second, we hoard time as if it were money.
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For any marginalized group to change the story that society tells about them takes courage and perseverance.
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Because the development of inner calm & energy happens completely within & isn’t dependent on another person or a particular situation, we begin to feel a resourcefulness and independence that is quite beautiful—and a huge relief.
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To reteach a thing its loveliness is the nature of metta. Through loving kindness, everyone & everything can flower again from within.
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Kindness is really at the core of what it means to be and feel alive.
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Our practice rather than being about killing the ego is about simply discovering our true nature.
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Training attention through meditation opens our eyes.
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Mindfulness helps us get better at seeing the difference between what’s happening and the stories we tell ourselves about what’s happening, stories that get in the way of direct experience. Often such stories treat a fleeting state of mind as if it were our entire and permanent self.
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Forgiveness that is insincere, forced or premature can be more psychologically damaging than authentic bitterness & rage.
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