Forgiveness is a personal process that doesn’t depend on us having direct contact with the people who have hurt us.
SHARON SALZBERGThe light still illuminates the room and banishes the murkiness, letting you see the things you couldn’t see before.
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Training attention through meditation opens our eyes.
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Because the development of inner calm & energy happens completely within & isn’t dependent on another person or a particular situation, we begin to feel a resourcefulness and independence that is quite beautiful—and a huge relief.
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Pain & suffering requires time, awareness, and an intentional practice of self-love to disentangle.
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When we don’t tell those we love about what’s really going on or listen carefully to what they have to say, we tend to fill in the blanks with stories.
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We need the courage to learn from our past and not live in it.
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Effort is the unconstrained willingness to persevere through difficulty.
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As we practice meditation, we get used to stillness and eventually are able to make.
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We often get caught up in our own reactions and forget the vulnerability of the person in front of us.
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We are all too often told by someone that we are too old, too young, too different, too much the same, and those comments can be devastating.
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Life is like an ever-shifting kaleidoscope – a slight change, and all patterns alter.
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Mindfulness helps us get better at seeing the difference between what’s happening and the stories we tell ourselves about what’s happening, stories that get in the way of direct experience. Often such stories treat a fleeting state of mind as if it were our entire and permanent self.
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Just as a prism refracts light differently when you change its angle, each experience of love illuminates love in new ways, drawing from an infinite palette of patterns and hues.
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It is awareness of both our shared pain and our longing for happiness that links us to other people and helps us to turn toward them with compassion.
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To relinquish the futile effort to control change is one of the strengthening forces of true detachment & thus true love.
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The combination of realizing our distinctiveness along with our unity is seeing interdependence.
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Abiding faith does not depend on borrowed concepts. Rather, it is the magnetic force of a bone-deep, lived understanding, one that draws us to realize our ideals, walk our talk,and act in accord with what we know to be true.
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We’re capable of much more than mediocrity, much more than merely getting by in this world.
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Only when we start to distinguish reality from fantasy that we can humbly, with eyes wide open, forge loving and sustainable connections with others.
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The art of concentration is a continual letting go. We let go of what is inessential or distracting. We let go of a thought or a feeling, not because we are afraid of it or because we can’t bear to acknowledge it as a part of our experience; but, because it is UNNECESSARY.
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People turn to meditation because they want to make good decisions, break bad habits & bounce back better from disappointments.
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Mindfulness is the agent of our freedom. Through mindfulness we arrive at faith we grow in wisdom & we attain equanimity.
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If we turn away from our own pain, we may find ourselves projecting this aversion onto others, seeing them as somehow inadequate for being in a troubled situation.
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We long for permanence but everything in the known universe is transient. That’s a fact but one we fight.
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All forms of meditation strengthen & direct our attention through the cultivation of three key skills: concentration, mindfulness & compassion or loving & kindness.
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Fearful of wasting a second, we hoard time as if it were money.
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Metta sees truly that our integrity is inviolate, no matter what our life situation may be. We do not need to fear anything. We are whole: our deepest happiness is intrinsic to the nature of our minds, and it is not damaged through uncertainty and change.
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